I also have this problem.
Mac DAW machine doesn't see Windows VEPro machine in the VEPro plugin window after a while and I have to type in the IP. Connection at project load is fine.
Specifics of my setup:
MacOS 13.3.1 Nuendo 12 VEPro VST3
Windows 11 VEPro 7.2.1516
Fixed IP on secondary network without DHCP, exclusively for VEPro traffic. Single Cat6 ethernet cable from Mac to PC ethernet port, no router, no switch.
On the Mac I have another ethernet port for internet enabled. On the PC I have another ethernet port for internet which I turn off when not needed and keep all network traffic exclusively for VEPro on the PC.
Thanks.