Total Physical Memory 4,096.00 MBsomething confuses me with those values ...
Available Physical Memory 2.55 GB
Total Virtual Memory 3.00 GB
Available Virtual Memory 2.96 GB
Page File Space 5.88 GB
Total Physical Memory 4,096.00 MB - look, XP seems to see it
Available Physical Memory 2.55 GB - seems you have loaded ~1,5 GB something
Total Virtual Memory 3.00 GB - confusing, should be physical memory plus pagefile
Available Virtual Memory 2.96 GB - what the system can use in fact in total, also confusing
Page File Space 5.88 GB - might originate from a former setting of pagefile-size
see my specs on an average machine below to compare (note: windows understands virtual memory to be the available memory in total, independant from beeing physical or the pagefile)
check te following: does your bios show verbose messages during startup (dos-like lines at startup, before grafical surface coming up) - if not, set your BIOS to show then (sometimes needed to disable *show splash screen* which just shows a logo from manufacturer). try to read the lines regarding memory there, but i bet it reports 4 GB
if not, check your RAM-sticks to sit correctly in the slots and be paired.
try to disable pagefile at all (note you have to select the line for the disk the pagefile resides on - don't forget to confirm changes with *set*) - write down the values which are mentioned in this dialog before changing them (screenshot would be the best)
i would need to get on a machine with 4 GB to tell you more details ...

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