Agreed. However, I don't know of any library that has all their samples equally well calibrated. Unfortunately this is reality. In general, demos sound quite well, but they're written by very highly skilled top notch programmers who have tons of plugins that add in the quest of correcting sample deficiencies. And, of course, very expensive plugins that a poor guy like me can't afford. So I spend tons of time trying to live with what I have with not much result. I am a melodist and would like it that high strings were much smoother and without extremely bothersome white noise that accompanies their higher registers and strident harmonics that are louder than their fundamentals.
I have 4 libraries, all with the same deficiencies. No, it's not the sound card. It's a good, pro card, so the sound channel's problems are in general solved. No matter what, I can't render my sweeping and tidy pop melodic lines with the aid of violins as sweepingly and tidily as I want. And yes, I also write 12 tone and world music. Maybe in 10-20 years time we'll have better samples.
As far as Trombones, to my taste the best I've heard to date are those by Sample Technology. They probably use Physical Modeling. Well, at least the ***demos*** sound great. Wallender's (Physical Modeling as well) demos also sound well, but when I tried their software the Trumpet had such strident stray harmonics that I decided not to have the package because I couldn't take them out. I bought VSL Special Edition Vol1 because that's all I could afford.
I only tried the Trumpet, which doesn't have native vibrato and the patches don't react to cc17 + After touch. Far less expensive packages' patches DO. VSL, CAN WE HAVE VIBRATO WITHOUT SPENDING TONS OF MONEY? I think you'd only gain in popularity and, therefore, more customers :)
Anyway, my 2 cents.
John.