Thanks for all your replies. I will look into the other thread and try to apply what is suggested in there.
However there remain 2 problems:
1) How do I start the VE Pro server MINIMIZED TO THE SYSTEM TRAY from the command line?
2) How do I disable that annoying pop-up balloon? I don't know how retarded VSL thinks their average user is... but after clicking away that balloon away more than 20 times, most users would have remembered that the application is still running in the system tray. Please give us an option to disable it. Thanks! :-)