I have also been reading recently about the mind control psychology of these sites - it is disturbing. I think any composer should get paid upfront for any use of his music - screw "promotion" - that is the biggest joke. It is being foisted off on actual music creators by all these sites. But the reality is - people listen, then move on. And never pay a cent.
I hope you succeed, as you certainly deserve to do so. I purchased all three of your CD's from CD Baby. I see also that you have several individual pieces on that site, including Nearing Andromeda, which I just purchased for 99 cents. Well worth that price for such a polished tone poem.
What all of us who love new tonal (for lack of a better term) classical music need is an online magazine, or vlog or blog that would tell us about new music and composers of interest. The atonal, experimental and minimalist composers have completely taken over the established classical music genre and poisoned the well.
Listening to "Nearing Andromeda" as I write this, I marvel at the excellent quality. Composition, orchestration, AND mixing are all excellent.