You are right in that any reverberation processor will always add to whatever coloring the sound already has gathered during the recording process. No matter what we do, it will always end up as a series of compromises. Sitting inside a nice concert hall, in a good position, is a nice experience - but I wouldn't want a recording from that position. The sensation of sound is completely different when you are immersed in a 3-dimensional soundfield - listening to a dummyhead recording in headphones can be very nice, but playing that recording back on speakers ruins the experience. You always have to consider the final step of reproduction, and take actions to accomodate for it.
I myself prefer recordings which have a reasonable level of support/spot micing. It is for sure a "non-purist" approach, but for me - it simply does the trick. The requirements of certain filmscores today can also require spot mics, since it can emphasize weak instruments which in a purist approach would be very hard to accomodate. Naturally we have to develop our products to be flexible, to cater for the variety of tastes out there.
Experimenting with placing the instruments closer to the microphone and running them more wet sounds like a good idea though. It all comes down to your preference. If you prefer that sound, go for it. If you prefer a more distant placement with direct sound (our virtual spot mic) then go for that.