What you're saying is exactly my point, PB.
At the moment I have an ASC MIX Station set up in a modified fashion (
http://www.tubetrap.com/mixstation/index.html), along with a couple of Auralex foam sheets leaning against the front window, some Auralex LENRD foam wedges in the back corners (which isn't quite right, hence my need to do some work), and a strategically-placed bookcase behind me for dispersion.
That's one step above one-size-fits-all treatment. I need some bass-trapping as well, and as you and I both say, I need to look at sweeps with a measurement mic to do it properly.
The other thing is that I've been convinced by a friend (www.moultonlabs.com) that contrary to conventional wisdom, putting absorption on the sides is not a good idea. All that does is insert a lowpass filter in your room; you only hear comb-filtering interference if the relections come from the same angle as the speakers, so the place to get rid of reverb is at the front of the room.
That's not what I have set up, but I believe it's the ideal way to do it.